It takes few minutes to know a person’s name, and it takes years to really understand someone. true, only time will tell the characters of a person from within. lesson that i learned, never judge a book by it’s cover. there’s this term that I learned in Human Interaction and Internet Technology, which is WYSIWYG (What You See Is What You Get). well, it certainly don’t apply to human. what we see on the surface, may not be the truth that you thought it was.
why do we have to take such a long time to see a person’s true color or how ugly the truth is. It makes people feel stupid, for wasting so much time on believing things that in the end, is not what you think it was and that it is something else; something that makes you sad; something that makes you feel like you got a slap on the face.